I always find it really hilarious when straight guys ask me why the majority of the really good looking guys usually turn out to be gay.
The funny part is, they put themselves down by saying that being good looking is something that is inherent in most gays.
wahahaha.. if it was so, I doubt I'd be so depressed over the zit that appeared overnight. x)
Instead of blaming it on the gene pool, why don't you guys monitor the psychological makeup and lifestyle of the AJ community?
1) A large proportion of AJ guys do not enjoy getting dirty.
This means, NO soccer in the mud, NO trackking through swamps and NO camou on face (pls!). Mud, as much as people endorse it's ability to purify the skin, DOES NOT mean the grassy mud that comes from soccer fields. If you want a nice skin tone, without ringworms, white spots or the like, which can easily cause permernant damage on the skin.
2) We know what are toners, astringents, rentinols, trecitine, benzoyl peroxide and comodogenic
Do you know what it means?
Knowing all these terms can be the very difference between a flawless skin and a volcanic crater - even though both may be using the same stuff.
3) We are health nuts.
Vitamin A, C, B2, Iron, Taurine.. you name it, most AJs have been taking it or has taken it at some point in their life. The thing is, when they say its good for you skin, you can be assured that the gay community will close round it like sharks.
4) Looking good is VERY important to us.
Because the gay community is always under pressure by the government not to be open about their sexuality, and that people are always having a negetive impression of AJs, our social life are usually confined to the darkness of the night. I mean, maybe thats why there's always the issue of sex... possibly. Anywayz, imagine you're in a club. You wouldnt have time to analyse the "personality" of a person - rather, the first impression that the person makes is far more important.
Materialism is thus one of the key pillars of why so many AJs look good.
5) Metro-me-gay.
No matter how much the world tries to push the metro community to the straight guys, the dominent crowd in the metrosexuals are gays. Why? Because gays tend to be more aesthetically inclines (don't ask me why. just look at the music and arts scene). They tend to be more in-tuned with their emotion, and this help them pick flamboyent colors without making them look like a clown gone wrong.
Their ability to create style and color combitations make them the forerunners of the fashion industry. But hey, don't compare us to the women out there. I mean, woman are WOMAN.
Five points.
Haha. Is that enough to prove to you that you can be good looking as well?
Its basically the thinking and lifestyle.
But frankly, as much as they say looking good counts, in my opinion, a large number of the gay community need to work alot on their personalities...
Being highly emo creatures... We tend to polarize conclusions.
Take a look at this situation
Boy 1 : "you didnt pick up my call just now"
Boy 2 : "darling, I was with my friend just now! We were eating!"
Boy 1 : "who is that friend?"
Boy 2 : "A friend lah!"
Boy 1 : "why don't you want to tell me who? is it another guy who likes you and you're going on a date with him, and because you're so obsessed with him you can't answer your phone? or you didnt hear?
Boy 2 : "yah. its a guy who likes me... but..."
Boy 1 : *cries* "why can't you stay loyal to me? why are you so flirty??"
Boy 2 : "its just a small meal, and its because my phone was on silent mode thats why i didnt hear your call..."
Boy 2 : "*cries silently*"
- end -
Familiar senario? I think more then a few of us AJs would totally understand this situation (especially me, coz its adapted from one of the situations I had with dominic)
The problem is our emotions cause us to polarize alot of things that aren't there in the first place, and our imagination cause our thoughts to run wild...
We then jump to dangerous conclusions that can threaten to shake the foundations of the relationships.
Come to think of it, maybe this another reason why AJ relationships hardly last...
but of course, there are a whole host of other reasons..
you'll need a really forgiving and loving boyfriend, who'll still love you even though you made him really irritated.
haha. Don't I put alot of thought into my entries?... =)
